Chapter 1: A Simple Exchange

It was an ordinary day when I found myself on a train bound for Amsterdam. After grabbing my usual coffee from the local café, I settled into a four-seat area, ready to immerse myself in Hermann Hesse's "Siddhartha." This work, a profound exploration of spirituality during the time of the Buddha, had recently captured my interest again as I delved into personal growth.

As the train pulled away, a man in his thirties took a seat across from me. He had a relaxed surfer look with thick, shoulder-length hair and a loose-fitting shirt. I was so absorbed in my book that I barely noticed him at first.

"That's a nice book, isn't it?" he remarked, breaking my concentration. When he repeated the question, I finally looked up to meet his warm brown eyes. His voice was deep and calm, exuding a sense of genuine curiosity. It felt as if, in that crowded train, we were the only two people in the world.

In that moment, I sensed an unusual connection. His gaze seemed to pierce through my exterior, reaching into my very essence. Instead of feeling uncomfortable, I found solace in his unwavering attention. There was no judgment or expectation—just a pure exchange of presence.

His simple yet profound presence made me ponder how uncommon it is to encounter someone who is truly present—someone who listens not to respond, but to understand. It highlighted the rarity of genuine attention in a world filled with distractions.

We engaged in a brief conversation about my book, lasting only three minutes, before he had to disembark. Yet, it was more than a discussion about literature; it was about a moment of authentic human connection.

This encounter inspired me to strive for the same level of presence in my interactions with others. I felt compelled to extend this warmth and appreciation to future strangers.

So, to the stranger who imparted this lesson, I express my gratitude. And to those I will meet in the future, I hope to carry this spirit forward.

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Chapter 2: The Art of Being Present

In our fast-paced lives, we often forget the significance of pausing to connect with those around us. This experience reminded me to slow down and cherish those moments of genuine interaction.

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About the Author

Merijn Duchatteau is a behavioral scientist and organizational psychologist dedicated to empowering individuals through insights from psychology and philosophy. He shares his reflections to inspire others on their journey of self-discovery. If you found value in this story, please give it a thumbs up to help others discover it too!