A Tribute to Olivia Newton-John

I was just nine years old when I encountered my first real crush. It was the beginning of my new life at a different school, a change initiated by our move. Little did I know, that moment would profoundly influence my adult years.

This cherished memory resurfaced with the heartbreaking news of Olivia Newton-John's passing at the age of 73, after a courageous battle with cancer.

In my previous writings, I've discussed how celebrity deaths resonate with us, especially when they involve icons like Olivia. Those of us in our 50s remember her music vividly, singing along to her lyrics as we navigated our own lives. We were the Sandys to our Dannys, singing "Hopelessly Devoted to You" as I did at that tender age.

Grease

At my new school, every Wednesday, we attended mass, but Fridays were reserved for talent showcases. This was a time before shows like American Idol took center stage. I can still picture the day he took the floor to dance—everyone anticipated his performance, our very own John Travolta.

In 1978, John Travolta became a household name with Saturday Night Fever and Grease. His portrayal of Danny captured our imaginations, especially on those Friday afternoons.

As a nine-year-old, I struggled to comprehend my feelings for him, which lingered until I transitioned to yet another school in our early teens. Over the years, I often reflected on why I acted the way I did, such as not speaking to him some days or hiding his belongings to garner his attention. I left that school without a proper farewell, and I never saw him again.

I have no idea what he looks like now, nor do I wish to find out. I preferred to remember him as the boy I fell for at nine—the Danny to my Sandy.

Olivia Newton-John

Grease was more than just a film; it served as a cultural snapshot of its era. While some themes in the movie would likely be criticized today, we must remember it was a product of its time.

It's crucial to acknowledge that serious issues like date rape and bullying should never be trivialized in entertainment.

When I learned of Olivia's death, it triggered a flood of memories associated with her music. Like many, I believed she would be around forever, so her passing on August 8, 2022, felt surreal. Her family released a statement, sharing:

"Olivia Newton-John (73) passed away peacefully at her ranch in Southern California this morning, surrounded by family and friends. We ask that everyone please respect the family’s privacy during this very difficult time."

The statement continued:

"Olivia was a symbol of triumph and hope for over 30 years, sharing her journey with breast cancer. Her healing inspiration and pioneering experience with plant medicine continue through the Olivia Newton-John Foundation Fund, which focuses on researching plant medicine and cancer." — John Easterling, her husband.

The tributes that poured in for Olivia reflected her grace and ability to evade the scandals often associated with celebrity life. She was genuinely beloved by family, friends, and fans alike.

"I don’t know if I’ve ever met a lovelier person," a co-star remarked. "Olivia embodied summer; her warmth and grace will always remain in my memory."

"I will miss her enormously." — Stockard Channing, her Grease co-star.

"My dearest Olivia, you made our lives infinitely better. Your influence was profound. I love you deeply. Until we meet again, yours from the moment I first saw you and forever! Your Danny, your John!" — John Travolta.

Final Words

"It’s a decision how you choose to feel about something." — Olivia Newton-John.

In an interview with Gayle King, she left us with this thought, which I hope to carry with me: she chose happiness despite her struggles. Her pain was hers alone, but her joy resonated with all of us who admired her music, films, and radiant spirit.

From the time I fell in love with her in Grease to the uplifting songs that became the soundtrack of my life, Olivia's legacy is one of generosity and compassion, especially towards those battling cancer.

A life well lived, indeed.

May you rest in love, Olivia, knowing that we will always be hopelessly devoted to you.

"For death will come to all of us, And then, at last, we shall rest. For those who did good, And for those who did wrong. The poor and the rich, The unknown and the celebrity."

Thank you for reading.

Also published here.

Updated on December 13, 2022

This year, John Travolta mourned the loss of two dear friends to cancer, including Kirstie Alley, who passed from colon cancer.

In a heartfelt message on Instagram, he expressed:

"Kirstie was one of the most special relationships I’ve ever had. I love you, Kirstie. I know we will see each other again." — John Travolta.

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