Chapter 1: The Quest for Purpose

Many of us find ourselves pondering life’s biggest question: “Is this all there is?” As I near my 40s, I've come to understand that we might be questioning the wrong things. More troubling is the realization that we often follow a narrative crafted by others, neglecting our own distinct paths.

If this perspective seems odd, it may be.

Like many, I grapple with feelings of anxiety and depression. Some days, a few deep breaths can alleviate the weight, while on others, the discomfort lingers, reminiscent of an old, unwashed protein shaker. I've recognized that much of my emotional turmoil arises from outdated stories I tell myself—fears of being an inadequate parent, failing professionally, or living in solitude.

I once thought that achieving something monumental would dispel these fears. I was convinced that significant accomplishments could distract me from my insecurities and provide happiness. Yet, as time progresses, bringing gray hair and aching joints, I find I've mostly accumulated feelings of shame and guilt, living through life’s moments without genuinely savoring them.

I’ve found myself caught in cycles of pushing, striving, and chasing, only to repeat previous errors. Our external situations often reflect our internal feelings.

As Van Leon wisely stated, “The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself without running away.”

The real issue isn’t about purpose; it rarely is.

Purpose often becomes a fantasy replaying in our minds.

Instead of searching for a grand purpose, why not immerse yourself in what’s immediately present?

If you think that practices like meditation, journaling, or positive affirmations will be your saviors, you might be mistaken. These methods aren’t magic solutions; life isn’t structured that way. It’s an unrealistic expectation.

I never anticipated that writing would become a passion or a means to aid others. Yet, I now realize that perhaps the essence of life lies in being so engaged in something—without any preconceived notions—that your purpose finds you.

I see this clearly through my daughter's experiences as she navigates life across two households. In my absence, her natural curiosity flourishes. She isn’t weighed down by expectations; she simply enjoys being a child.

So, why not engage with life through a child’s sense of wonder? Fully participating in the present moment is perhaps the most underrated gift life offers.

You aren’t bound by the limiting narratives you impose on yourself. You have the right to be who you are, to think and feel freely.

Life is unfolding right here and now.

This moment, like every other, is a chance to truly live.

The first video titled "Can't Find Your Purpose in Life? WATCH THIS!" delves into the common struggle of seeking purpose and encourages viewers to appreciate the journey instead of fixating on an elusive destination.

Chapter 2: Embracing the Present

The second video, "How to Find Your Why, Purpose & Life Path," offers insights into identifying personal motivations and embracing a fulfilling life without the pressure of defining a singular purpose.