Section 1.1: The Detriment of Backbiting

Backbiting is a moral failing that leads to numerous social and ethical issues. Often driven by jealousy and envy, this behavior emerges when individuals feel inadequate compared to others. In such cases, they resort to spreading malicious gossip about those who are not present.

Hearing others engage in backbiting is something I find intolerable. Although I have witnessed my relatives engage in this behavior concerning my family, I choose not to react openly. Instead, I often discuss moral principles and reference Hadiths that discourage backbiting in their presence, hoping to inspire a change in their attitudes.

Let me share a relevant anecdote:

The Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) once accompanied two men who were gossiping. While they were silent about their actions, they passed by donkey meat. The Prophet suggested they eat it, to which they replied it was disgusting and forbidden. He then remarked that backbiting is a far worse sin, as it nullifies one's good deeds. I believe that eventually, those who engage in backbiting will understand that it is detrimental to human relationships and social harmony.

Section 1.2: The Issues with Closed-Mindedness

Closed-minded individuals resist change, often clinging to conservative beliefs that prevent rational thinking. This ignorance can perpetuate intolerance. In my home country, Pakistan, certain groups deny women access to education, confining them within domestic walls. This not only stunts individual growth but also hinders national progress.

When I meet women whose educational aspirations are suppressed by their families, I make it a point to encourage them and persuade their families. I explain how women worldwide are making significant contributions. Notably, a female minister in our province serves as an inspiring figure, even if I don’t fully endorse her policies.

Section 1.3: The Problem of Littering

Another significant dislike of mine is littering in public spaces. Witnessing trash strewn about is disheartening, as it shows a lack of respect for one’s community and environment. Littering contributes to pollution and exacerbates global warming.

I believe that cleanliness is essential, and I actively participate in efforts to clean my community. I take pride in doing my part to remove litter from public areas, never feeling embarrassed about this commitment.