A Personal Reflection

To me, sexual activity is sacred; it is a divine gift that embodies depth and purity. It serves as a source of pleasure and the means of creating life. Engaging in any activity, including sex, demands energy. When we connect with another person, our energies intertwine, making it one of the most intimate forms of connection. This is why I hold it in such high regard. It’s crucial to be discerning about where we invest our energy and with whom, particularly in relation to our values.

When I first met my children’s father, I made it abundantly clear that I was not interested in a relationship that revolved solely around sex. There are numerous ways to foster intimacy without prioritizing physical interactions. Initially, he may not have taken my words seriously, but as our relationship deepened, the message became clear. Our last daughter, Lunar, was conceived shortly after we reconciled, an act I approached with intention.

A few days post-conception, I expressed my desire to change our lifestyle, emphasizing that something felt off. I decided to abstain from sexual activity for the foreseeable future.

The Risks and Benefits of Abstaining

I've come to realize that life encompasses much more than just sex. When we align our spiritual and physical selves, the experience of intimacy can be significantly enhanced. Choosing to abstain from sexual relations is akin to fasting—it's about denying the flesh its immediate desires in favor of nourishing the spirit. Often, we misinterpret sex as the solution to our problems, mistaking it for a necessity when it’s merely a fleeting pleasure.

Abstaining cultivates self-discipline, allowing us to take control of our minds and bodies. Our physical desires often reflect our mental focus; when we redirect our attention from these urges, we start living more intentionally. The ultimate aim of abstaining is to foster a deeper connection with God and our higher selves, facilitating personal development.

It’s important to distinguish between being unable to engage in sexual activity for various reasons and choosing to abstain for a higher purpose—specifically, to enhance one’s spiritual journey. This intentional abstinence can lead to a magical connection with a partner when the time is right, provided both individuals are attuned to themselves and aligned with one another.

I appreciate your time and hope you find strength in your own abstinence journey. If you found value in this discussion, please express your support by hitting the applaud button. I’m eager to hear your thoughts on this topic; feel free to share in the comments below!

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