Chapter 1: The Essence of Being Your Best Self

Reflect on those times when you truly felt at your best. What characterized those experiences? It wasn't merely about relentless hard work or the accolades that followed. You didn't feel fulfilled when praised for actions that didn't resonate with you or after adhering to the advice of motivational figures.

Your peak moments came from being completely, unapologetically yourself. It was about immersing your heart and soul into every experience, unrestrained. Whether you were laughing uncontrollably at a silly joke, passionately pursuing a unique hobby, or relishing in carefree moments of joy—those instances defined your true self.

To become the best version of yourself, you must first allow yourself the freedom to be who you are. The times you showcased your most admirable qualities were those in which you chose not to hide your true self. Thus, enhancing your personal growth means fully engaging in every moment you experience.

This translates to living life to its fullest, becoming more present, and doing more of what brings you joy. It's not about striving for improvement or adhering to societal expectations, but rather releasing the constraints that inhibit your authenticity.

To truly embody your best self, you must abandon the standards you've imposed upon yourself, many of which may not align with your true desires. If the gym isn't your scene, don't force it. If early mornings aren't for you, skip them. Don't strive to be extroverted or wealthy unless that aligns with your true self.

Letting go is key—embrace the concept of simply being. Once you recognize that forcing yourself into certain behaviors can obstruct your path to authenticity, your perspective will shift. Activities that once felt obligatory can transform into pursuits of genuine interest.

Instead of viewing the gym as a requirement for fitness, consider going to feel empowered and vibrant. Rather than waking up early because it's deemed right by others, do it to seize the day and maximize your opportunities. Work diligently not to meet external expectations, but to explore where your efforts can lead you.

The crucial question to ponder is: Who do you aspire to be?

To genuinely become your best self, you first need to embrace your identity, which requires listening to your inner desires and committing to them. The more you attempt to conform to someone else's idea of who you should be, the further you'll drift from your authentic self.

Many believe that to improve themselves, they must change fundamentally, but the truth lies in accepting and nurturing who you already are. This involves deepening your commitment to what you cherish, not because it's expected of you, but because it aligns with your personal values.

This journey won't be effortless. Becoming the best version of yourself demands time, dedication, and, above all, a commitment to your authentic path. However, it can be straightforward:

1. Identify Your Desires: What do you genuinely want from life? Who do you wish to become? Not because it’s expected, but simply because it resonates with you.
2. Recognize What You Don’t Want: Often, these are external pressures dictating your choices. Determine whether these expectations reflect your true self or merely societal norms.
3. Avoid Self-Judgment: Accept your preferences without criticism. Your likes and dislikes are valid. Whether you enjoy mainstream trends or unconventional passions, embrace them without guilt.
4. Invest in Yourself: Dedicate your energy to what makes you unique. Dive into your passions, share your interests with enthusiasm, and relish the things that spark joy in your life. The more you engage with what you love, the more fulfilled you'll feel.
5. Regularly Reflect: Throughout your day, you may forget these principles. Life can complicate your path, and societal pressures may pull you away from your authenticity. Make it a habit to check in with yourself: "What do I want right now?"

Ultimately, you're free to disregard this advice. If anything resonates, remember that your path is yours to define. You can adopt early rising, rigorous workouts, or any number of societal expectations, but true happiness stems from pursuing what you genuinely desire.

Without intrinsic motivation, your actions can become burdensome, leading you away from your true self. To be the best version of yourself, you must commit to living authentically and exploring your desires.

Understanding what you want from life and who you wish to be is vital. Accept your preferences without judgment, and pour your energy into what makes you who you are. Embrace your passions and don’t let others deter you.

If no one were watching, what would you pursue? Who would you become?

Chapter 2: Finding Your Authentic Path

The first video, "HOW TO: Become the Best Version of Yourself in 2024," offers insights into embracing your true self and pursuing personal growth.

The second video, "How to Become the Best Version of Yourself (in 6 Weeks) | Becoming Her Ep.1," dives into actionable steps for self-discovery and transformation.